2014年11月21日 星期五

『十四生活箴言』--諾貝爾文學獎得主馬奎斯


諾貝爾文學獎得主馬奎斯,因肺部疾病及其他器官感染在墨西哥的家中去世,享年87歲。

馬奎斯的『十四生活箴言』

•每件事的發生,背後一定有個理由。

•我愛你並非因為你是誰,而是當我在你身邊時的我是誰。

•沒有一個人值得你為他流淚,而值得的那位,他不會讓你流淚。

•正因為某人無法如你願般地愛你,但並不表示你不被其他人所愛。

•一個真正的朋友,他不只握住你的雙手,他也觸動你的心靈。

•錯失一個人最糟的方式就是,你坐在他身旁,卻知道你不能擁有他。

•即使你很傷心也不要停止微笑,因為有人會愛上你的笑容。

•對這個世界,你可能只是個普通人,但對某個人而言,你是他的全世界。

•不要花時間在那些不在乎你為他花時間的人的身上。

•也許上帝要你在碰到對的人之前,去遇到許多不對的人,所以當事情發生時,你要懂得感謝。

•不要哭泣,事情總會結束。微笑,因為它發生了。

•世界上永遠會有人傷害你,所以你要繼續信賴。

•在你遇到新的對象前,請讓自己成為一個更好的人,並了解自己是誰,更希望對方也能了解你是誰。

•不要太掙扎,好事常發生在預期之外。


(Translation by Catherine Yen)
「Fourteen Phrases for Living」by Gabriel Garcia Marquez
• Everything that happens has a reason behind.
• I love you not for whom you are, but who I am when I’m by your side.
•No person deserves your tears, and who deserved them won’t make you cry.
•Just because some one doesn’t love you as you wish, it doesn’t mean you are not loved with all his/her being.
•A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart.
•The worst way to miss someone is to be seated by his/her side and know you’ll never have him/her
•Never stop smiling, not even when you’re sad, someone might fall in love with your smile.
•You may only be a person in the world, but for someone, you’re the world.
•Don’t spend time with someone who doesn’t care spending it with you.
•May be God wants you to meet many wrong people before you meet the right one, so when this happens, you’ll be thankful.
•Don’t cry because it came to an end. Smile because it happened.
•There will always be people who’ll hurt you, so you need to continue trusting.
•Become a better person and be sure to know who you are before meeting someone new and hoping that person knows who you are.
•Don’t struggle so much, best things happen when not expected.